ConnectionCodes
Connection Codes hands you the words for what is happening underneath — so the same fight stops being the same fight.
Sound familiar
- Shame
- Lonely
- Hurt
None of that means something is wrong with you. It means nobody handed you the language.
Meet Dr Glenn & Phyllis
Dr Glenn Hill
Glenn is a marriage and family therapist and clinical sexologist with a private practice in Nashville. Phyllis is his wife of forty years — and the one who tells the truth about what all of this actually looked like in their own marriage. Together they wrote The Connection Codes, now published in English and German.
What they teach comes down to two questions every person carries into a marriage: will you be there for me, and am I good enough for you. When the answer goes quiet — even for a few seconds — something in us panics. That is not immaturity. That is how we are built.
We're faith-based. We teach this for couples who believe love is a calling, not just a feeling.
Fifteen years in. Thirty-nine years in. The same language.
I can see us 99 years old, still holding hands.Lauren & Jesse GomezMarried 15 years
Maybe instead of yelling at each other… maybe we can talk to one another.George & PamMarried 39 years
Real couples
“Connection Codes gave us the practical tools we desperately needed to become vulnerable, feel truly heard, and heal deep wounds in our marriage. For the first time in 23 years, we know how to find our way back to connection—even after hard days.”
“Connection Codes changed our marriage by giving us practical tools to connect, reflect, and understand each other more deeply. As a multicultural, bilingual couple, we discovered that this language of connection truly is for everyone.”
“Connection Codes has revolutionized our marriage by helping us break painful cycles, understand what’s really happening beneath our emotions, and reconnect instead of trying to fix each other. The Core Emotion Wheel has become one of the most valuable tools in our relationship.”
The way back
The Wheel gives you the words. The workshops teach you to use them in the moment that matters, when the same fight starts again. And if this changes your marriage, certification trains you to help others find their way back too.
- 01Get the free WheelFour minutes, tonight. Eight emotions, named, with the need underneath each one.
- 02Take the workshopsSelf-paced video workshops that teach the whole framework. Start with Connected Marriage.
- 03Take it to othersTrain with Dr Glenn and Phyllis to become a certified Connection Codes coach.
When you're ready