01The first 90 days
Connected Marriage
Build the foundationRebuild trust, attunement, repair, and shared rituals that make safety feel normal again.
Connection Academy
Your Marriage Will Completely Change in 90 Days
That's not hype, it's a proven method. Weekly tools from Dr Glenn and Phyllis that turn the same old fight into the moment you find each other again.
Why this exists
You do not need to try harder. You need to know what is happening underneath the fight.
Most couples know something is off. When one of you goes still face, the other has about 19 seconds before Lonely and Hurt take over the room. Connection Academy gives you a clear path back, week by week, phase by phase.
How it works
Three phases. One new way of reaching for each other.
You learn a shared language for the eight emotions, Joy, Anger, Shame, Guilt, Fear, Lonely, Sad, and Hurt, because Identity is the deepest need each of you carries into the marriage. The first 90 days change the marriage. The next phases take it deeper.
02Phase two
Connected Intimacy
Deepen the bondPractice emotional and physical intimacy with language, pacing, and tenderness you can actually use.
03Phase three
Connected Parenting
Bring it homeRaise connected kids by changing the emotional atmosphere of the whole family system.
The proven method
Information is not the point. Being able to stay in the room when it gets hard, that is the point.
You practice four phrases together until they become reflex: Oooo, What happens?, I missed it, and How can I help? That is how the same old cycle stops becoming a cyclone.
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The first 90 days
Build the foundation
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Phase two
Deepen the bond
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Phase three
Bring it home
Inside each phase
Enough structure to keep going. Enough support to not disappear.
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Weekly video lessons
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Guided homework, written or uploaded
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Live cohort sessions
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A private cohort of couples moving with you
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Personal feedback from your coach or admin on every homework
Enrollment
Start with one phase or walk the whole road.
Most couples spend months searching for the next right step. This gives you one.
$39.99
per phase
- One participant login
- Weekly content
- Homework feedback
$59.99
per phase
- Two participant logins
- Practice together each week
- Cohort and feedback included
Who this is for
For couples who are tired of trying hard and still missing each other.
Couples who have read the books, done the counseling, and still keep missing each other.
Newlyweds building strong foundations before pressure arrives.
Parents who want to stay connected through the chaos.
Anyone who has thought, we used to be closer than this.
We finally had words for what was happening under the fight.Luke & Claire Farman
FAQ
Before you join.
Do we have to do all 3 phases?
No. Each phase stands alone. They are strongest when you let them build on each other.
Is this live or self-paced?
Both. Weekly content gives you the path, and live cohort events give you rhythm, practice, and support.
What if my spouse is not on board yet?
Solo enrollment is available. You can start practicing the tools even before both of you are ready to join together.
Give your marriage 90 days. Start practicing a new way of reaching for each other.
This is slow, holy work, and you do not have to do it alone. Start with Phase 1 and let God meet you in the room you keep avoiding.
Start with Phase 1