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Connected Marriage
The whole framework, in the order it actually works.
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Sound familiar?
- You have the same argument every few weeks in slightly different clothes.
- One of you shuts down, the other pushes harder, and you both know exactly where it's going.
- You've read the books and sat through the counselling and still can't name what's actually wrong.
- You love each other. You're just tired of guessing.
What changes
- Name what you're feeling before it turns into a fight.
- Say the thing you have been circling for years.
- Catch the nineteen seconds where a hard moment can still go either way.
- Stop having the same argument in different clothes.
Wow! This course was what we needed to get to a whole new level of relationship in our marriage. We can finally have hard conversations and not lose each other in the process.
Melissa WinghamThe Connected Marriage WorkshopHow it works
Feel it
Find the actual emotion under the reaction using the Core Emotion Wheel. Most fights are a guess about what the other person feels.
Convey it
Say it in a way that can land — short, first-person, no case to argue. This is the part nobody teaches you.
Process it
The other person receives it instead of defending against it, and the emotion completes. That is connection, and it is repeatable.
This has been the single best thing we've ever done for our marriage. We are SO GRATEFUL for the authenticity and wisdom that has provided space for us to heal and become a safe place for one another.
Connection Codes transformed our marriage, giving us practical tools to connect and reflect in ways we never thought possible. As a multi-cultured, bilingual couple, we doubted anything could truly work for us — but Connection Codes transcends language.
Yngvar & Ruth HalvorsenThe Connected Marriage WorkshopAfter all the counseling sessions we have sat in, none of it helped us understand what the brain is doing and how we can do better at disarming its tendency to react and defend.
Jennifer C RobinsonBreak the Cycle of FrustrationFor couples who love each other and are tired of guessing.
Taught by Dr Glenn and Phyllis Hill.
What you get
Connected Marriage
- 8 core sessions plus the bonus material
- The Core Emotion Wheel, and how to use it mid-argument
- Watch at your own pace, keep it for life
- Works on your own or as a couple
My wife discovered Connection Codes and this course. We bought the course and our journey to intimacy and connection began. It was so helpful to us that we became certified coaches… 10/10 recommended for anyone who wants to learn how to build deeper connections with people they love.
Jeff HoskenThe Connected Marriage WorkshopWe use what we learned every single day without exception… We've learned tools to de-escalate conflict and create deep connection.
Before you buy
Is this the same as the old Foundations course?
Yes — same workshop, new name. Nothing was cut.
Do we have to do it together?
No. Plenty of people start on their own and bring their spouse in later — you'll still learn the framework, and you'll be the one who changes the pattern first. It does go faster with two.
How long does it take?
It's self-paced video you own for life. Most people watch a session in an evening and get through it in a week or two, then come back to the tools for years.
Is this therapy?
No. It's a teachable framework out of Dr Glenn Hill's clinical work, not counselling. It works alongside therapy, and plenty of therapists and coaches use it themselves.
Is it religious?
Dr Glenn and Phyllis are people of faith and don't hide it, but the framework is about how emotion actually works in the brain and body. Members of every background use it.
What if it doesn't help?
Then you get your money back. 30 days, just email us.
Start tonight.
Watch the first session in the time it takes to put the kids down. No schedule, no cohort, no waiting for a date to come round.
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