The Workshop · For closeness
Connected Intimacy
Words for the conversation you keep not having.
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Sound familiar?
- Sex has quietly turned into a scoreboard instead of a place you meet.
- One of you asks, the other braces, and neither of you says why.
- You can talk about the calendar and the kids but not about this.
- You want each other. You just don't have the words.
What changes
- Talk about sex without it turning into a negotiation.
- Ask for what you want without it landing as criticism.
- Hear a no without hearing rejection.
- Reach for each other from closeness, not from pressure.
Within one week of starting Late Night, we had breakthrough in our sex life. For the first time in our marriage, there was zero physical pain… It became total joy and total freedom like we could never have imagined was possible for us. Finally, after 11 years of trying, we are expecting a miracle baby boy.
How it works
Feel it
Find the actual emotion under the reaction using the Core Emotion Wheel. Most fights are a guess about what the other person feels.
Convey it
Say it in a way that can land — short, first-person, no case to argue. This is the part nobody teaches you.
Process it
The other person receives it instead of defending against it, and the emotion completes. That is connection, and it is repeatable.
Years of 'bad' and 'unclear' theology around sex left me feeling like sex wasn't fun or enjoyable. Late Night opened my eyes to what a sexual relationship in marriage should really look like. It opened doors for us to communicate our wants, needs and desires.
I used to dread having sex. I couldn't be sexually vulnerable when we were in so much conflict — not to mention the body image issues after having a baby. Once we were given the tools and language to communicate what was happening for each of us, we found safety.
While the Foundations course and the Core Emotion Wheel exercise secured the foundation of our relationship, Late Night gave us permission to dive deep, expand boundaries, and question everything we believed about sex.
For couples who can talk about almost anything except this.
Taught by Dr Glenn and Phyllis Hill.
What you get
Connected Intimacy
- The full Connected Intimacy workshop
- Language for the conversation you keep putting off
- Watch at your own pace, keep it for life
- Built on the same Core Emotion Wheel framework
After years of struggling with intimacy post-menopause, cancer, and immense stress, we felt lost. But after starting Late Night, we've reconnected in a way we never thought possible — it's been truly life-changing.
For years, past trauma and unspoken pain shaped our marriage, creating distance we didn't fully understand. But through Connection Codes, we've finally been able to process our past, shed shame, and build a true sexual friendship — one with open communication, healing, and hope for what's ahead.
Before you buy
Is this explicit?
No. It's about emotional safety, honesty and desire — the reasons intimacy stalls in the first place. Frank, not graphic.
Is this the same as the old Late Night course?
Yes — same workshop, new name.
Do we have to do it together?
No. Plenty of people start on their own and bring their spouse in later — you'll still learn the framework, and you'll be the one who changes the pattern first. It does go faster with two.
How long does it take?
It's self-paced video you own for life. Most people watch a session in an evening and get through it in a week or two, then come back to the tools for years.
Is this therapy?
No. It's a teachable framework out of Dr Glenn Hill's clinical work, not counselling. It works alongside therapy, and plenty of therapists and coaches use it themselves.
Is it religious?
Dr Glenn and Phyllis are people of faith and don't hide it, but the framework is about how emotion actually works in the brain and body. Members of every background use it.
What if it doesn't help?
Then you get your money back. 30 days, just email us.
Start tonight.
The conversation you have been avoiding goes better when you both have the words for it. Watch the first session this evening.
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