The Connection Codes
The Blueprint & Tools for Creating the Relationships You Crave
If you love deeply, you hurt deeply. If you don't, it's much worse.
- Eight core emotions, each with its message and its need
- Experience Assignments at the end of every section
- The Core Emotion Wheel, the tool the whole thing turns on
- 189 pages, built to be worked through with someone
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It is the language of your birth.
Humans are coded for relational connection with other humans. Often that coding has been short circuited and needs reactivating. However, we do not need to learn it, we need to relearn it. This is not a new language; it is the language of your birth.
The Connection Codes are the culmination of over 30 years of research, education and experience. They are experiential, not just conceptual — the power is not in the knowledge, it is in the relational interaction.
Read the full story of the book →I don't want to be vulnerable until I know you're safe, but I won't know you're safe until I'm vulnerable. So, someone has to take a risk.From the book
Five sections, in the order they actually help.
Identity
p. 1Emotion: A Human Right
p. 53Core Emotion Wheel
p. 99The Cycle
p. 147Relationship Science
p. 169Conclusion & Beginning
p. 189What people did with it.
I've never experienced something so practical yet deeply transformational. Every area of my life has been impacted for the better by the Connection Codes.
Chris Cruz
We've spent a small fortune on marriage and family counseling and have never made so much progress so quickly. So simple, implementable and powerful!
The Kohlers · Zurich Switzerland
Section three is a tool. You can have it before the book arrives.
The Core Emotion Wheel is one page with the eight core emotions on it, in plain language. It takes about four minutes to do with someone you love.
Someone has to take a risk.
The Connection Codes: The Blueprint & Tools for Creating the Relationships You Crave · Dr Glenn & Phyllis Hill with Echo Hill-Vetter · ISBN 978-1-7376500-0-3 · © 2021 · also published in German as Die Connection Codes