Connection codes

from the inside out.

Tools That Strengthen Churches 

We believe the Church should be the safest place in the world to talk about pain, marriage, emotions, and healing.
Let us help you create a culture where people feel seen, known, and free to grow.

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Why pastors trust Connection Codes:

💔 Marriages are breaking down—and couples need more than prayer, they need a clear framework.

🙏 Church staff are navigating deep conflict and burnout—we equip them with tools to process emotions and care for their own souls.

🎭 Small groups are staying surface-level—we help your people take off the mask and have real, healing conversations.

🧠 Most Christians were never taught how to name what they feel—we give language and structure rooted in truth and compassion.

🕊️ People aren’t walking away from faith—they’re walking away from disconnection. We can change that.

The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out.

— Proverbs 20:5

We believe the Church should be the safest place on earth for people in pain.

We believe God designed our brains to experience emotion—not as a flaw to suppress, but as a pathway to connection, healing, and intimacy with Him and others.

The problem isn’t that we feel too much—it’s that we were never taught what to do with what we feel.

When people learn how to identify and share their emotions, they begin to live out the fullness of what God intended: deeper relationships, restored marriages, and a unified Body of Christ.

01

Host an Event

Whether it’s a marriage conference, leadership retreat, or all-church weekend, Dr Glenn & Phyllis will guide your people through a powerful experience that creates safety, deepens relationships, and builds unity within your church.

From the stage to small group settings, they equip your community with tools to:
  • Reduce conflict (yes, even the ongoing ones)
  • Communicate emotions clearly
  • Reconnect after hurt
  • And foster the kind of connection that reflects Christ’s love

Your staff will leave feeling supported.
Your couples will leave feeling hopeful.
And your church body will leave with tools they can actually use.

02

Certify a Coach from Your Church

Train a staff member, lay leader, or counselor to become a Certified Connection Codes Coach and offer ongoing support inside your church.

  • Equip someone to walk alongside couples and individuals
  • Offer real-time support when conflict arises
  • Reduce burnout on pastoral staff by expanding care capacity
  • Build a sustainable, in-house resource for your congregation

03

Launch Connection Codes Small Groups

Use our biblically aligned curriculum to guide your people into real, vulnerable connection—no experience required.

  • Transform surface-level small talk into meaningful conversations
  • Help your people take off the mask and build real trust
  • Provide leaders with a structured, easy-to-follow format
  • Strengthen community, marriages, and emotional discipleship

Not sure which path is right for your church?

Let’s talk it through—just fill out the form below and we’ll help you build a plan that fits your people.

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When people feel safe

Everything Changes

Meet the framework that’s helping churches everywhere move from surface-level to soul-level.
Connection Codes gives your people the language, tools, and safety they need to heal, grow, and stay connected to each other—and to the Church.

A sustainable way to care for your staff, your leaders, and your entire church body

IF YOu'RE READY TO:

Strengthen marriages and protect your congregation from emotional disconnection

Your small groups to go beyond surface-level and into real-life transformation

Healthier families, more honest conversations, and deeper spiritual growth

THIS IS RIGHT FOR YOU      

IF:

LET'S DO A LITTLE PRE-CHECK 

Your staff is navigating unspoken tension or unresolved conflict behind the scenes.

You’re seeing more and more couples struggle—and want to intervene before it’s too late.

You’re feeling overwhelmed trying to meet everyone’s emotional and spiritual needs.

Small groups feel surface-level, and your people are craving real connection.

You believe emotional growth is spiritual growth—and you want tools that reflect that.

Meet our Founders

Dr Glenn & Phyllis Hill

Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill are the co-founders of Connection Codes, a biblically grounded framework that helps people understand and process emotions in order to build deeper connection with God, their spouse, and their community.

After years of pain, miscommunication, and disconnection in their own marriage—including almost two decades of trying everything they could find—they discovered the missing piece: a simple, God-designed process for emotional connection. Glenn returned to school to earn his Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy and later his Doctorate in Clinical Sexology. Together, they developed a framework that has now helped thousands of couples, individuals, and church leaders find freedom, healing, and intimacy.

Whether they’re speaking at churches, leading retreats, or training pastors and staff, their heart is to bring hope and practical tools that reflect God’s design for emotional and relational wholeness.

During our 3 day seminar with Dr Glenn and Phyllis Hill, our staff were able to connect in a way they haven’t before.

Joel Taylor

Connection Codes has not only helped me personally but has helped our church greatly as well. They have given us incredible tools to use as an organization that are not just practical, but transformational.

I keep saying to my husband "this will change everything just everything!" 

Joni Tanner 
Unite Church

THANK YOU JESUS! THANK YOU DR. GLENN AND PHYLLIS HILL for your passion and for pioneering the way forward in connection! 

Candace Johnson
Studio Greenville

The team was great to interact with and get everything set up. We had a great experience and are grateful to have made this investment in our people.  

The Connection Codes was a very beneficial experience for our church and gave us great tools to practice. 

Ryan & Hannah Schafer
Destiny Church, Springfield, IL

After reading “Connection Codes” we felt the need to invite Dr. Glenn & Phyllis to bring their message to equip the people of our church. We had two sessions with them and everyone left challenged to go to the next level in their relationships with their spouses, children, friends, etc. The core emotion wheel alone is a massive tool that is unmatched in connecting. 

The tools that the Hills shared are ones that will change generations. I’m so thankful that our paths crossed.

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