The brain part
Why you go blank mid-argument — the limbic flood that shuts the thinking brain off — and why naming one emotion switches it back on.
A free introduction from Dr Glenn & Phyllis Hill
Watch thisbeforeyou say one more wrong thing.
Seven minutes on why two people who love each other keep missing each other — and the simple language that closes the gap. No cost, no signup to watch.
A free introduction~7 min · with Dr Glenn & Phyllis Hill
What you just got
The whole map, in one short watch.
The three phrases
The exact language Glenn and Phyllis use every day: one sound, one question, one repair. Simple enough to remember when you're triggered.
The eight emotions
How to read the dashboard underneath “I'm fine” and “I'm overwhelmed” — and follow it to what's actually being asked for.
So why is it still hard?
Because the gap was never information. It's what happens when you're flooded.The honest part
Knowing the phrases isn't the same as using them mid-argument.
You've heard the words.
Reading the three phrases off a screen is easy. Saying them to your spouse at 9pm, when you're hurt and they're defensive — that's the part nobody practices.
This is the slow part.
“Slower is faster.” The video hands you the map. The live hour is where you watch it work on a real couple, then feel it land in yours.
Knowing ≠ doing.
If we just tell you what to do, you'll do it once. The live hour rebuilds the instinct so it's yours — there for the next hard moment, and the one after that.
Glenn&Phyllis
Who you just heard from
Married almost 40 years. The first 20 were painful.
Dr Glenn Hill spent decades as a marriage and family therapist watching couples who loved each other keep missing each other. He and Phyllis lived it too: knocked off course on their honeymoon, and decades finding their way back.
What they found became Connection Codes, a framework now practiced by tens of thousands of people. These days a tense moment in their house rarely lasts 30 seconds. That's not personality. That's tools — and the live hour is where they hand them to you.
You've seen how it works. Now come use it.
Monday, July 14 at 7pm Central. Free, live, and gone when it's over.